John Wood never discussed his absent mother

He was a boy of only 5 when John Wood, who later became a founder of Quincy, lost his mother.
From that day in 1803, family legends rose like morning mists in the valleys of Montgomery County, N.Y., where Dr. Daniel Wood, father of the boy and his older sister, Clarissa, was left alone to care for them.
What reasons were the children given for their mother's absence? What did Dr. Wood tell them? Could a 5-year-old boy understand what had happened to his mother when she disappeared from the family home and from his life? What affect did it have on him?
The children's father had been a Revolutionary War doctor of great reputation. Wood's son John, who would make his own mark on Illinois history, throughout his life venerated his father. Dr. Wood was a surgeon under Lt. Col. Aaron Burr of New York, a future vice president of the United States and the duelist-killer of the nation's first U.S. Treasury secretary, Alexander Hamilton. Dr. Wood had cared for diseased and wounded Continental Army soldiers who wintered at Valley Forge in 1778. In his own hand, George Washington, general of the Continental Army, commended Dr. Wood for his healing work there.
The doctor was honorably discharged in April 1779 and for his service was awarded a bounty of 1,800 acres of land. He settled on a 600-acre parcel near Sempronius, N.Y., and there established a farm and a medical practice.
On May 24, 1792, Dr. Wood, 41, married Catherine Crouse (Americanized from Katherine Krauss), who at 17 was less than half his age. Crouse's cousin, the Rev. John Henry Dysslip, performed the ceremony in the austere home of the girl's Reformed German Lutheran parents in Palatine, where more of Wood's bounty land was located. Dr. and Mrs. Wood moved to the Sempronius farm, and to them were born Clarissa on May 31, 1796, and John on Dec. 20, 1798.
Mystery veils the record during the 10 years before and at the time of Catherine Crouse Wood's departure from the family in 1803.
From her side of the family came rumors that she had died. Those stories endured until 2014 when a descendant's discovery of a will revealed that Catherine did not die but had abandoned her husband and children to return to Palatine for reasons unknown.
The will also divulged that Catherine had cohabited from 1803 to 1813 with one John Weaver and bore him four daughters, all out of wedlock.
A baptismal record for the fourth child, born eight weeks after Weaver's death in March 1813, signified that she was illegitimate. The child's name, Anna, was written upside down. The names of the three other children were not recorded.
During her years with Weaver, Catherine remained legally married to Dr. Wood, a fortuitous condition that enabled her to claim the doctor's Revolutionary War pension after he died Oct. 3, 1843.
Weaver's will, dated Feb. 17, 1813, provided that his estate would support Catherine as long as she took care of Weaver's children and "lives separate and apart from (Dr. Wood) and doth not cohabit with any other living man on earth."
Remaining family and genealogical records have not turned up to describe how the Wood or Crouse families reacted to Catherine's estrangement--or her life in the years that followed. What was passed along was that John Wood's mother had died when he was 5. Social rules of the day would have made that more acceptable. Women and their illegitimate children in the 19th century were disgraced, which could taint others in the family. Even a hint of such impropriety in that day could split and distance family members from one another. As close as he felt to his father throughout his life, John Wood is not known to have corrected the stories of his mother's death or to have uttered a word in public about her.
At some point before 1810 and for reasons not known, Dr. Wood also separated from his children, sending them to live with his nephew James Wood and his wife, Mary Armstrong Wood, in Florida, N.Y. The couple, both nearly 20 years older than John and Clarissa, raised them to adulthood. Florida was a town of about a dozen families. The James Wood home was near the family home of Samuel Seward, the town postmaster. That made John Wood a neighbor and later a schoolmate of the fourth Seward child, William Henry Seward, born in 1801. Both were destined to become Whig and Republican politicians and colleagues of Abraham Lincoln.
Born April 18, 1778, James Wood was a model of industry for John and Clarissa. He was the third-generation Wood to operate the farm established by his grandfather, Timothy Wood, of Yorkshire, England, and the family's first American ancestor. Like his father, Andrew, Dr. Wood's older brother, James mastered carpentry and cabinetmaking. During the War of 1812 he raised a company and was commissioned its captain. In 1814 he was elected a justice of the peace in Montgomery County and served for 18 years. For 44 years he was an elder of the Florida Presbyterian Church.
James's wife, Mary, born in Florida, N.Y., on July 24, 1777, in her 97 years never lived farther than three miles from her birthplace. She was a genial woman and loved the generations of children she knew, although she occasionally protested the innovations of modern families. She often hummed from the many hymns stored in her memory, a habit inherited and repeated in Quincy by the adult John Wood.
Whether John Wood had any contact with his mother between her flight in 1803 and before her death in 1848, his response to a New York court in 1849 indicated he had little interest in doing so. To an inquiry by Judge Samuel Belding of the surrogate (probate) court in Montgomery County, Wood renounced any right he had to administer his mother's will or claim "goods, chattels, or credits" from her estate.
Reg Ankrom is a member of the Historical Society of Quincy and Adams County, and a local historian. He is a member of several history-related organizations, the author of a history of Stephen A. Douglas, and a frequent speaker on pre-Civil War history.
Sources
S. Belding, Chief County Judge, “In the Matter of the estate of Catherine Wood, deceased,” July 29, 1849. Copied document from Surrogate Court of Montgomery County, New York.
Ken Cool, descendant of Catherine Crouse Wood and John Weaver, in emails to the author.
Robert Houston McReady, The First Presbyterian Church, Chester, New York, 1798-1898. Chester New York, 1898 at https://archive.org/stream/firstpresbyteria00mccr#page/n9/mode/2up
Donna Przecha, “Illegitimate Children and Missing Fathers: Working Around Illegitimacy,” at http://www.genealogy.com/articles/research/52_donna.html
“The Seward/Mapes Homestead Restoration” at http://sewardhomestead.org/about_seward.html
“Village of Moravia,” The History of Cayuga County, 1789-1879. Files of Historical Society of Quincy and Adams County.
James M. Volo and Dorothy Denneen Volo, Family Life in 19th Century America. Westport, Connecticut: Greenwood Press, 2007.
“Will of John Weaver,” Town of Palatine, Montgomery County, NY,Will Book, Vol 2, Page 335
“Capt. James Wood” and “Mary ‘Polly’ Armstrong Wood,” at www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=37229927 and ibid 37229928.





