Stephen A. Douglas Takes a Wife to Quincy

They were almost mirror images. Congressmen Stephen A.
Douglas of Quincy and David Settle Reid of Reidsville, North Carolina, a town
named for his father, were both freshmen members of the 28th
Congress of the United States. Their seat assignments in the House of
Representatives as Congress began on December 5, 1843, put them next to each
other.
Reid and Douglas were born within four days of each other, Reid on April 19, 1813, and Douglas on April 23. Both were equally ambitious. Although Reid had been admitted to the North Carolina bar in 1833, a year before Douglas was certified to practice in Illinois, it was Douglas who had vaulted his way through its practice. Then law became an afterthought. After Douglas hung his shingle on the front wall of the Morgan County courthouse, the county’s 11 Whig attorneys conspired to “starve him out.” That would be unnecessary. Douglas’s interest in jurisprudence was half-hearted. He more often closed the door of his first floor office to talk politics with his denim-clad visitors rather than to keep private any conversations with clients.
Both bachelors, Reid and Douglas were young—and Jacksonian in their Democratic politics. The two men, each 5’4” tall and 105 pounds, looked eye to eye on nearly every vote they cast. Friend Reid’s most important contribution to his Illinois seatmate, however, had nothing to do with national politics or law or debates about them.
In 1843, Reid’s uncle, Robert Martin of Wentworth in north-central North Carolina, arrived in Washington with daughters Lucinda and Martha to watch their cousin sworn in as their representative in Congress. As a boy, Reid had worked in Martin’s Wentworth store and now continued the family’s tradition in elective politics. Martin’s uncle Alexander had been a member of the Continental Congress, twice governor of North Carolina, and three times a U.S. Senator. The Reids also had been legislators and judges.
Planning a six-week stay in Washington, Martin asked Reid to escort and introduce Lucinda and Martha to his friends. Reid asked Congressman Douglas to join them. Martha, who at 15 was half Douglas’s age, was his height, thin, bobbed-haired, hazel eyed, and an alumna of boarding schools in Salem, North Carolina, and Washington. Douglas took her to dances, receptions, and plays. He was smitten. Throughout her stay, he sent flowers and candy to her. When she returned home, he feared he would never see her again.
Reid made sure the courtship would continue. At the end of the congressional session, he invited Douglas to Rockingham County, where the Douglas-Martin romance resumed. At summer’s end, Martha Martin returned to a Philadelphia finishing school to continue studies in music and lessons in piano and harp. While there, she had three serious suitors, all lawyers, including Douglas. Her father and cousin were influential, however, in their preference for Douglas, who already had been an Illinois secretary of state, circuit judge, Supreme Court justice, and now congressman. Martin believed that for Douglas there were more honors ahead.
Their doting father saw that his daughters had everything they wanted. So when Lucinda, whose life seemed so promising when she married a young physician, died on September 15, 1846, the family fell into a deep despair. Robert Martin wrote Douglas that intense agony and fever had gripped Martha, and her mother’s grief was likely to be worse. “Everything about our House, Yard, and Garden seems to wear the most melancholy aspect,” he wrote. “We look only to God for relief.” Under the circumstances, he added, “we cannot think of receiving any company.” He advised Douglas to stay away for several months.
The Illinois General Assembly on December 13, 1846, elected Douglas U.S. senator. Colonel Martin and daughter Martha were in the Senate gallery on March 4, 1847, to see him sworn in. At the end of the session, Douglas returned with the Martins to Rockingham County, where on April 7 Stephen Douglas, 34, and Martha Martin, 18, were wed on the Martin’s tobacco plantation that stretched a mile along the Dan River.
The following day, Colonel Martin proposed to transfer to Douglas ownership of his second slave plantation in Lawrence County in southern Mississippi. Douglas declined the wedding gift. Martin presumed it was because Douglas was a northern man whose moral principles and political circumstances prevented it. Martin, who died a year later, left it to his daughter and willed Douglas 20 percent of the plantation’s income to manage it.
The new Mrs. Douglas not feeling well, Douglas decided to make the trip from North Carolina to Illinois in Colonel Martin’s more spacious brougham carriage. The couple made frequent rest stops and arrived in Quincy on May 18, 1847. The Martins decided to follow Martha as she was their only child. They arranged to sell the Dan River plantation and “settle for life in the neighborhood of Quincy.”
Martin had planned the move extensively. He had two “waggons” custom built and itemized the furnishings and goods in a lengthy list each would carry. He sent a detailed itinerary to Martha. “To Quincy. Rent a house – superintend the workmen on our buildings – Garden – Grounds, etc. . . .I believe I gave you and Judge D. both my view concerning buying land in Illinois and advised you not to engage any more than the 180 acres already purchased until I could see you.”
The Quincy Whig on May 18, 1847, in a vignette noted the arrival of Senator and Mrs. Douglas, who lodged at the Quincy Hotel on the southeast corner of Fourth and Main Streets. Within a few days, Mrs. Douglas determined Quincy not to her liking, early enough for her parents to change their plan for relocation in Western Illinois. With Senator Douglas’s constituency spread across the state, the couple by late summer of 1847 moved to Chicago and lodged in the Tremont Hotel. Douglas kept his official residence in Quincy until 1849. He retained his membership as a “Companion” in the Quincy Chapter No. 5 of the Masonic Lodge in Quincy through 1858.
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